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有一種飽和原則，就是孩子們慣有的厭煩心情。雖然強烈的想擁有目的，也能夠體會把事情做完的樂趣，但是因為課程繁多在內心產生阻力，無法持續主動地去做事，如果把要求的水準降低，課業的份量減少，繼續培養孩子在低潮時的活力，那麼他們在低潮過後，又會升起責任心，更主動地去做功課。

第一招，適當降低對孩子的要求。
第二招，先讓孩子做不喜歡的科目。
第三招，用同一步調增強主動行動力。
第四招，讓孩子先吃點苦。
第五招，興趣是最好的老師。
第六招，母親的激勵最重要。
第七招，要改變孩子先改變你的態度。
第八招，偶爾用懇求的證據與孩子說話。
第九招，不在孩子挫敗時痛駡他。
第十招，給孩子適當的報酬也是行之有效的。
第十一招，多帶孩子與大自然接近。
第十二招，成功並不像你想像的那麼難。
第十三招，培養孩子主動自我的激勵。
第十四招，化憤怒為學習的動力。 via:幸福拳家



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你的孩子很聽話，是一匹溫順的馬兒，但人們常常這麼說“能夠把馬帶到河邊去，卻不能讓馬兒喝水”。的確，除非馬兒很渴，不然，即使能夠把它帶到水邊去，也不能讓他主動喝水。
第一招，做作業的時間不宜過長。
第二招，放大孩子的優點。
第三招，學習不可操之過急。
第四招，讓他把喜歡的女孩帶回家 。
第五招，先讓孩子玩個夠。
第六招，刺激她，使他全力以赴。
第七招，正話反說。
第八招，經常改變學習環境。
第九招，列一個功課計畫表。
第十招，先讓孩子做擅長的功課。
第十一招，讓孩子自己抽籤決定。
第十二招，別在孩子面前評判老師。 via:幸福拳



Kids Mental Arithmetic Class

From birth to teen age, brain development is at its greatest. During this period prefer not to miss this wondow of opportunity to develop and enrich their child's capabilities, creatives and brain potentials. Abacus and Mental calculation together with the use of sense of sight, hearing and touching are renowned as an amazing and effective ways to stimulate the development of left and right hemispheres of brain. Mental arithmetic lessons have been long proven as a successful way to sharpen memory, increase concentration and enhance agility. It is a valuable training that will positively affect kids overall learning abilities that last a lifetime.

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Child experts indicate that there are some common basics of effective discipline. Here are techniques to try:
1. Consistency is Key
Since everyone has a different parenting/caregiver style, it's not practical to say all discipline should be consistent all the time. Do try, however, to instill consistent rules, approaches, and even goals and rewards each day. Kids can find change or inconsistencies confusing, and may test limits or boundaries to see how far they can go with different
adults. (Remember the saying, "If mom says no, then just go ask dad?) The motto may be cute on a shirt, but is nothing but trouble in a household where inconsistent rules exist.

2. Seek Out the 'Why' of Misbehavior
When Johnny throws a cup and its contents spill on the carpet, a disciplinary consequence SHOULD be rendered. But if you take time to seek out the "why" to the behavior rather than just the action itself, you might be closer to figuring out your child's problem (at least this one). If you determine that he threw his cup because the straw was clogged, for example, you might assess a different outcome or have a different conversation than if he threw it because he didn't want milk for a drink. Maybe he is mad at something else entirely, and this is how he handles it. Parents can then guide appropriate behavior.

3. Avoid Power Battles
Choose your battles very carefully, but once you've picked a battle then a parent/adult MUST win. Always. Only
address those issues that are truly important (safety is always a key battle) and let some things go. If possible, offer
choices while still setting reasonable limits. But if an issue is important, experts indicate it's vital that a parent not cave and give in to a child, even "just this once." If you do this, then every time this issue comes up again, your child will know that you might change your mind.

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4. Emphasize and Praise Good Behavior
If the behavior won't cause harm, then an effective disciplinary approach often involves praising good behavior and rewarding it through hugs, high-fives or special activities (like a trip to the park), while ignoring bad behavior. This is easier said than done, but a child will learn that good actions result in more positive attention and praise while bad behavior gains her nothing.

5. Keep Your Cool
Kids often enjoy seeing a rise out of an adult; blowing your top can be interesting to watch and kids sometimes see your loss of control as a victory for them. Keep calm and in control, and if necessary, tell your child you're taking a brief "time out" to assess the situation and appropriate consequence before taking action. Kids will often take advantage of a frazzled, mad, or emotional adult; don't give them this opportunity. If you do mess up, learn from the experience, and take another measure to keep yourself calm, cool and collected the next time (and there will be one!).

6. Seek Out Discipline Supporters
When someone else is watching your child, be sure to communicate discipline style and request the caregiver adopt a similar fashion. Likewise, if you do not believe in a certain approach (like spanking or a time-out chair), be sure to indicate that to a babysitter or early education teacher as well. If checking out a new day care or pre-school, take time to ask about disciplinary approach. Many parents find that if they match their approach to what methods are used at a child's care setting, the results become more effective. The reason may be that kids respond to discipline tactics that are used with their peers.

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1. 尽快教字母

　　当孩子到了适当年龄，爸爸妈妈最好尽快开始教孩子们关于识字。让孩子阅读需要从零基础教起。虽然孩子们在他们第一年的公共教育课程中会开始学习字母，但是最好在上小学的前一两年就让孩子接触字母。

　　当孩子学会开口说话之后，你就可以开始教他们认识字母表。孩子的房间中也不要只充斥着玩具，保留一个干净整洁的地方放一些儿童书籍和杂志。爸爸妈妈平时也要有看书的习惯，如果孩子的周围出现这种行为，他们将会很轻松的适应阅读。


2.大声朗读

　　大声朗读也是一个阅读的一个重要部分，总要花一些时间和家人一起大声朗读。每天晚上，在孩子睡觉之前，可以让他（她）大声朗读一本儿童读物。选择让你的孩子感兴趣的书籍，保证他（她）尽可能的沉浸在故事中。

　　更理想的是，整个家庭一周有一次集体阅读的机会，在这段时间中，让整个家庭，包括父母和孩子一起朗读。大声朗读有助于向他人讲述讲故事。添加到家庭生活中读书、识字习惯将成为每个人生活中重要的的一部分。


3.社区扫盲计划

　　只要有可能，最好加入当地的阅读组织。在城市中，公共图书馆一般都会针对不同年龄段的人群组织不同的活动。例如，有的图书馆会提供给孩子阅读的机会，在给定的时间范围内让他（她）读一本书，继而当众演讲这本书带给自己的感受，表现出色的孩子将会获得一些奖励。

　　公共图书馆和社区教育项目也有针对青少年和成人的读书俱乐部，所以参与到社区阅读项目中仍然可以是家庭生活的一部分，这些活动着重培养每个家庭成员的素养。

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1. 粗俗的语言
父母的语言对孩子影响最深。
一些父母在家里不讲究语言文明，夫妻间经常出言不逊，言语粗俗，对孩子骂不绝口。这些粗俗的语言像病毒一样毒害着孩子纯洁的心灵。

2. 暴躁的脾气
有些父母脾气暴躁，性格乖僻。开口便骂，举手便打。在家庭生活中，孩子常是父母坏脾气和坏性格的主要受害者，被父母的大发雷霆吓得胆战心惊。父母这种反常的心理状态，对长期生活、成长在自己身边的子女，影响甚深。心理学家认为，孩子的坏脾气和坏性格与其说是从父母那里"传"来的，不如说是从父母那里学来的。

3. 夫妻关系不融洽
如果夫妻间感情不融洽，关系紧张，势必危害孩子的身心健康。因为，在恶劣的家庭气氛中生活，孩子纯真活泼的天性会受到压制，饮食、睡眠、学习、游戏都会受到不同程度的影响，身心受到摧残。

4. 不良习惯
不可将坏习惯看成是小事，这对孩子的身心健康影响深远。父母懒散、贪睡、不讲卫生，孩子看在眼里，记在心里，学到身上。有位小学教师发现一个有趣又发人深思的现象：班级里那些个人卫生差的学生，其家庭卫生往往也较差。可以说，孩子的不良习惯主要来自家庭。

5. 不良嗜好
根据对少年吸烟者的调查，其父母双方或一方吸烟者比父母不吸烟者多3～5倍；"酒鬼"的子女一般也比同龄人更早地沾染上酗酒的恶习；赌博的危害更甚，孩子不仅容易从父母那里学会赌博，而且在一个彻夜打牌或打麻将的家庭里，孩子也不可能有安静的学习环境。孩子生活在赌徒的身边，学习、品德大多不可避免受到影响。

另外，还有的父母喜欢吹牛、撒谎、自私、好占小便宜等，这些都躲不过孩子的眼睛和耳朵。

父母的一言一行，无论是美丑善恶、高尚卑俗，都会深深地在孩子的脑海里扎根，直接影响他身心的发育和成长。因此，要想孩子身心健康、成龙成凤，父母应该加强自身的修养，杜绝或减少家庭精神垃圾的产生。via: vyes365.com

K2 Science Lesson - Electrostatic

The way for kids to excited about science and also be keen to know more, should be to provide them with time to play around with truly cool science experiments. Many of the successful 'science' messes have sprung up from their own interest and trying to solve a question which they have posed themselves.

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Exercise of Practical Life Skill.From sorting and counting to colors and shapes, kids can learn a lot by helping out with the laundry. So next time, maybe your kid could spend little time with their parent in the laundry.

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1. Plan Ahead
Kids thrive on routine and information, and parents who have successfully conquered public outings with their kids swear it has to do with proper planning before anyone ventures into a store. One mom makes a simple list and has her children carry it (make a list for each kid, if it helps) to be her "helpers." Tell kids why you're going into a store and what you will and won't be buying. Then, stick to it. Keep visits brief and to-the-point. This is not the best time to simply browse.

2. Have a Mission
Involve kids with helping with the "mission at hand" (i.e. buying milk, bread and lunch meat at the grocery store) and set expectations in advance. Consider letting each kid choose one item, such as the breakfast cereal, or help with getting the items out of the cart if they successfully stay in the seat while shopping. Have a fun activity planned after the "mission is accomplished" such as going to the park or watching a movie together.

3. Keep it Positive
Child experts urge parents to develop rewards for great behavior as an incentive, and so that parents can gently remind kids of what lies ahead if their actions earn it. Whether it is picking one treat at the check-out counter, riding bikes when you get home, or staying up an extra 15 minutes late to watch a beloved show, positive rewards can foster angelic-like behavior and help to minimize melt-downs by kids (and their parents) alike.

4. Keep Expectations Realistic
Public outings often are unsuccessful because parents have unrealistic expectations as to how long kids can remain quiet and inactive. After all, they are just kids! It is reasonable to expect kids to behave during a short restaurant outing; but parents shouldn't expect youngsters to remain "seen and not heard" throughout a fancy, multi-course meal at which a restaurant prides itself on graciousness, custom cooking, and dining comfort. Pick places accordingly.

5. Bring Quiet Entertainment
While your kids are adorable, realize that not everyone may appreciate their gestures and squeals as much as you. Do not allow them to play peek-a-boo over the back of a booth to a childless group eating out. They may be enjoying a night without their own kids and don't want yours to entertain (or distract). Bring quiet entertainment for kids that they'll truly love, such as colors, Hot Wheels, mini DVD player, small dolls, or other "noiseless" entertainment. Everyone will thank you!

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6. Have a Plan B
Kids are kids, and temperaments, illness, and less-than-angelic behaviors can sometimes create a need to go to Plan B. Soiled clothing, a sleeping child, or inclement weather can put a damper on big plans, and every experienced parent knows that trying to force something to happen usually backfires. Plan B may be restaurant delivery rather than eating out, waiting a day to go to the grocery store, or delaying an outing until the baby awakens from a nap. If possible, go with the flow.

7. Visit Kid-Friendly Stores When Kids Are In Tow
Not all stores or restaurants are created the same, and some places are more kid-friendly than others. Businesses cater to their clientele, and try to offer an environment that is profitable and satisfying to customers at the same time. And, no, not all businesses need to accommodate side-by-side strollers and grabby hands. Cramped stores overloaded with breakables and stacked merchandise might best be frequented without kids!

8. Set Proper Behavior Expectations
Kids learn from their parents; it's up to us to set expectations as to appropriate behavior. If you expect your kids to sit quietly through a meal, remain in the basket while shopping, or hold your hand as you enter a store, then say so immediately before the public outing begins. Make sure all understand and agree to the behavior. Discuss that this is to be a "no whine" experience, and any concerns can be addressed back at home. Use the restroom before you leave to lessen time in a store.

9. Determine Consequence Ahead of Time
So, what do you do when your kid does whine or throws a temper tantrum in spite of your best intentions? Parents should have a calm plan in place and stick to the consequence. Giving in only feeds the beast for the next time. If possible, try and avoid melt-downs by letting kids be involved and providing them with a "yes" to something, and re-direct the emotions there. Parents can say: "Ali, you're starting to whine and I'd hate to not let you not get your popcorn, so let's do ____ now!"

10. Remember Health and Safety for All
A top complaint of restaurant staff is kids being allowed to roam, twirl, and otherwise irritate other diners, while parents sit nearby, seemingly oblivious. Don't let your kids crawl around an empty seating area; that means the table will need to be re-cleaned before new guests. Don't let them play with the salt and pepper, open sugar packets, crawl under tables (think of the unsanitary conditions), or stand and play underfoot of the wait staff and other diners. In other words, set controls!

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每個人都會有缺點，孩子當然也不例外。
但父母怎樣面對孩子的缺點，卻很有講究。
用粗暴、打罵等方法糾正孩子的缺點，
很可能使孩子產生逆反心理，不可能達到理想的效果。
因此父母教育孩子糾正缺點，必須講究方法。

1、無論什麼時候都不要說謊。
2、每個人都有值得學習的地方。
3、自我約束是對自己負責。
4、罵人是一種可恥行為。
5、你一定要學會控制自己的脾氣。
6、你是個懂事的孩子。
7、有耐心才能做好任何事情。
8、我們找個鍛煉細心的事情做一做。
9、凡事都要冷靜，不能急躁。
10、遊戲可以玩，但不能沉迷其中。
11、膽子大些，再大些。
12、偏食會妨害你的成長。 via: 幸福拳